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Creating a Calm Morning Routine That Actually Sticks By Klaver.Kind. and Matthew Klaver A softer approach for families navigating disability and real-life mornings There are mornings that begin quietly. And there are mornings that begin all at once. If you are raising an older child—a middle or high school student—with a disability, you already know: mornings are not just routines. They are transitions layered with emotion, energy, resistance, care, and unpredictability. The

A Call To Action – Human.Kind.Consulting The Problem: A Silent Crisis in Education There is a quiet crisis happening in our schools—one that does not receive nearly enough attention. Children with disabilities and children from under-resourced communities are being asked to succeed in systems that were never fully designed to meet their needs. Across the United States, schools are facing significant shortages of special education teachers, with higher attrition rates than gen

By Matthew Klaver, Human.Kind.Consulting The Evolution of Education—and Access to Opportunity For most of human history, education was not a universal right—it was a privilege. In preindustrial societies, children learned through necessity, family, and community. Formal education was largely reserved for the elite. Access to learning—and therefore access to opportunity—was limited to a few. With the rise of public education, societies began expanding access, but a deeper ques

By Matthew Klaver, Human.Kind.Consulting A Different Way of Understanding People At Human.Kind.Consulting , everything we do is grounded in one core belief: People are not problems to be fixed—they are human beings to be understood. This belief comes directly from humanistic psychology, often called the “third force” in psychology. Emerging in the 1950s and 1960s, this approach shifted away from deficit-based models and toward a focus on human potential, personal growth, and

By Matthew Klaver, Human.Kind.Consulting The Reality of Today’s Classrooms I want to begin by address the current reality in our schools and classrooms. Many modern schools and classrooms treat children like assembly line products, with teachers acting as the robotic assembly arms. Education is increasingly losing it's humanity. Strict pacing guides, scripted curricula, and a strong emphasis on standardized testing often leave little room for flexibility, creativity, or authe

By Matthew Klaver When educators and families talk about “behavior management,” the focus is often on strategies to control, redirect, or correct. But if you asked Carl Rogers—one of the most influential psychologists of the 20th century—he might gently challenge the question itself. Instead of asking, “How do we manage this behavior?” Rogers would ask: "What is this child experiencing, and what do they need in order to feel safe enough to do something different?” Behavior Is

By Matthew Klaver, Human.Kind.Consulting What Are We Really Measuring? As you already may know, summative assessments typically serve two purposes. For students, they are meant to determine what is known relative to content standards. For teachers and school systems, they function as accountability tools used to evaluate effectiveness (Garrison & Ehringhaus, 2013). In theory, this sounds reasonable. In practice, it is deeply flawed. As Durga (2020) reminds us, “summative asse

By Matthew Klaver M.Ed, Human.Kind.Consulting At the very beginning of the No Child Left Behind Era there was a lot of educational jargon being thrown into the educational sphere. "What's best for kids", "Best practice", "Research based" and a strong push in education toward what at the time, and still is, referred to as “rigor,” standardized outcomes, and measurable growth. But rigor without emotional safety does not produce learning—it produces resistance. Students in high-

By Matthew Klaver, Human.Kind.Consulting My Educational Experience: Two Very Different Worlds As a child growing up in the 1980s and 1990s, most of my early classroom experiences fell under the umbrella of cognitivism, with elements of problem-based learning (PBL) and experiential learning woven in. I attended elementary schools in Southern California where structured skill instruction coexisted with hands-on, exploratory learning. Phonics instruction and rote mathematical pr

My Approach Today: Humanism in Practice As a teacher working with 6th–8th grade special education students, I have developed a deeply humanistic approach . I prioritize authentic relationships and take time to understand each student’s strengths and challenges—almost like a scientist studying patterns and designing individualized supports. My goal is not just academic progress, but the development of the whole child. At the core of my work is the belief in self-actualization